eleanor-absurd whispered: 7, 16, 22

7. Would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or by the one you love the most?

Oh. The one I love the most, surely. Because the reason that I trust the one that I trust would be because I depend on them not to hurt me, right? So to be betrayed by that person would be devastating.

16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them? Who were they to you?

I suppose it would’ve been a friend of whom I am very fond. I like to pretend that I’m not one of those people that throw around the word “love” recklessly, but I am. So it’s just as well.

22. Are you old-fashioned?

Well, I like to look back at the old and the vintage and think “wow, that was so good. Why aren’t we like that anymore?” But at the same time, I feel that change is good, especially in terms of ideas and philosophies. I guess in terms of relationships and behavior and morals and societal roles, no, I’m not. 

Anonymous whispered: 2, 9, 10?

2.  Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way?

I don’t get angry very often. Usually just very upset. I suppose, last time I was really upset, it was because I felt that people often forget to consider my feelings when they make decisions that may not at first glance seem to affect me. It would make me happier if people were generally a little more perceptive/considerate/appreciative etc, yeah.

9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not?

This may make me sound selfish, but I feel like what has happened has happened and attempting to change the past will never end well, and furthermore, one never knows how long one has left. What if I’m to die at age 18 and giving up a year meant that I would die tomorrow? Even if given the chance, I wouldn’t meddle with this sort of thing.

10. Are you the sort of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
I don’t know. I mean, no, probably not. I’m fickle and my affections change ridiculously quickly. I think as a person, yeah, I’m pretty cool, but as a friend, no. I’m too unstable for my own tastes. I need people that I can trust, and I wouldn’t be able to trust someone as flighty as myself.
  • 1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
  • 2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way?
  • 3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them?
  • 4. You are at the doctor’s office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid?
  • 5. You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love and Trust.
  • 6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not?
  • 7. Would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or the one you love the most?
  • 8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more than just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you (or did you) do/say?
  • 9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not?
  • 10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
  • 11. Does love = sex?
  • 12.Your boss tells your coworker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your coworker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Why or Why not?
  • 13.When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person?
  • 14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a member of the opposite sex, you love them or that you do not love them back?
  • 15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?
  • 16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Who were they to you?
  • 17. If there was one moment and one time in the last month what would you change and why?
  • 18.Imagine it is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, you hear someone walking around outside your window. WHO do you wish was there with you?
  • 19. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not?
  • 21.You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision?
  • 22. Are you old fashioned?
  • 23. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it?
  • 24.Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?
  • 25.If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be?

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